Martinis & French Fries San Francisco
Where to have martini & fries in San Francisco, Martini & french fries at the bar San Francisco, girl dinners San Francisco, adult happy meals, french fries and cocktail
Martinis and fries go together like nothing else. It’s a vibe that I associate more so with NYC like at hotel bars, cocktail bars but glad there are places that offer this in San Francisco from cocktail bars, restaurants with bar seats and more. Martinis and french fries (New York Happy Meal) remind me of my time in New York where diners signaled some sort of desire to socialize without being disrupted mid-meal with something more involved, messy or intimate.
For me, martini and fries is a holdover while waiting for dinner plans later or or it’s a compromise for skipping dinner but not wanting to have a full meal too late nor have a drink without something to line the stomach. It’s the combo that either suggests you want to be alone but in public or you want to meet people out and about without the noise of bars, the full room of couples or the defeated retreat to a diner or fast-food options late at night.
For over a decade, I have been observing who folks sit, dine, position themselves, eat, drink, talk and communicate with others in social settings. Knowing if someone wants to be left alone, wants to chat for a bit and nothing more beyond that evening, is going to tell you their life jounery or is going to reveal one of the most intense sob stories about their recent break-up - these are all things you must brace for when meeting folks at the bar.
This is something I am fascinated by despite my analytical background as understanding nuance, justifying exceptions to the rule and predicting future behavior are some of the core underlyings of meeting people, making friends and dating in our modern age.
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Where To Have A Martini And Fries In San Francisco
I noticed a few lists out there that covered this trend but for those who know, the idea has existed for some time before the term girl dinners became a thing. Even then, lack of context made it hard to assess the vibe of such places: is it mostly couples or singles, are there actually any seats at the bar, or are these places more so for full dining rather than a limited snack while you nurse your cocktail - context matters.
Some suggestions I recently read online were quite useless as some places don’t serve french fries or food for that matter - perhaps that looked at Yelp and saw places that mentioned french fries and martinis but actually referencing lack of fries in such an establishment.
Martinis and fries may be the play more than ever given soaring prices in San Francisco, growing loneliness epidemic, and a desire to be around people even if no words are spoken. Most places in the city don’t make this a thing but a few do (or at least did) but martinis and fries are not just a girl dinner, the repesent something more than that.
Below are some of my favorite places to have a martini and fries across the city, which bar areas have seats to actually sit down (not all do), which days are fries offered (some only once a week), places that serve fries beyond orders wtih burgers or other entrees, places that have French fries and not polenta or yucca fries, which ones actually have fries on the menu (some only offer mashed potatoes or tator tots instead, which are good but not quite the experience).
Am I missing something? Is something outdated or closed? Let me know!